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August 2008
 
Dear friend,

 
The end of August means the start of school!  It will soon be time to put away the gardenia and lilac scented candles, and pull out the pumpkin spice and apple cider scents for fall!  During these warm days, I've enjoyed Starbuck's Java Chip Frappuccinos, but now I'm ready for a nice warm mocha.
 
It's been a big month of transition around here...Clayton left for college, school is starting for Connor and for Dr. Phil, we've had some staff changes, and our little Shih tzu Lucy, who was only supposed to weigh about 10 pounds, has transitioned to a whopping 15 pounds, and she's still growing!
 
Life is all about changing and growing, isn't it?  So grab your cup of coffee (no matter what the temperature is), light your floral candle, and let's give some new things a taste test!  We'll also explore the first boundary in the series we began last month in my Fresh Grounded Thought.  Who knows...it might just "change" your life!
 
Thanks for spending your coffee break with me today!

As always,
email me your thoughts or questions.  I'd love to hear from you!

Your friend,
 
Jennifer
Taste This! 

 
What I Am In To Lately

One of the highlights of August for this political junkie was the opportunity to speak at the Missouri Republican Summer Caucus.  I was asked to give an inspirational/motivational message to the gathering held at Tan-Tar-A Resort in Lake of the Ozarks.  What a special event!  I was impressed by each person I met.  The passion, sacrifice and commitment of the elected officials and candidates were inspiring to me. 
 

The only thing that was less than inspiring and not so special was that we got lost.  (According to Phil, we weren't lost; we just "missed a turn!")  Well, that one missed turn meant we were so late that I arrived just in time to be seated for a ten-minute meal before I got up to speak!  Whew!  Talk about tense!  Which reminds me of something new I want you to taste...
 
Tension Tamer tea is one of my new favorites.  It's a soothing combination of ginger, chamomile, peppermint, and lemon.  It also has an herb called "eleuthero which is an herb enjoyed for centuries by the Chinese for the sense of overall well-being it imparts.  We drink it hot and I even add it to my black tea brew when I make ice tea.  It's flavorful and refreshing.  I sent a box with Clayton to college, and I kept one here to sip and tame any tension that may arise!
 
Jennifer and Clayton at Baylor Yes, Clayton is now a freshman on the campus of Baylor University.  We drove the long drive last week (without any missed turns--we now have a GPS!)  It was a great experience... gut-wrenching, gratifying, exciting, and emotional...and I wouldn't have it any other way! 
 

Lucy Maud Montgomery wrote,  "The dew is falling and the old stars are peeping out and the sea keeps its mighty tryst with the little land it loves.  You find your soul, then you realize that youth is not a vanished thing but something that dwells forever in the heart."  Clayton and all of our family has entered a new phase which represents change and loss, but also new adventures.  Bring it on!
 
On the 9-hour drive both to and from Waco, I listened to my newest C.S. Lewis book.  The Screwtape Letters is an epistolary novel published in 1942.  The story unfolds through a series of letters from a senior demon, Screwtape, to his nephew, a junior tempter named Wormwood.  Each letter exposes how the forces of evil seek to subvert Christians from their faith.
 
Each letter was creative and beautifully crafted, giving form and personality to each character, including the unnamed Christian known simply as "the Patient."  Lewis ingeniously and imaginatively articulates the Christian view of demons and the ways in which they affect the lives of believers. 
 

I found myself observing my life and thoughts as I read some of the letters; I wondered, "Have I fallen for that ploy of the enemy?" I really, really loved this book.  It was an intelligent blending of fiction and fact that kept me eager to keep reading.  You really must give it a taste test!  It's an easy, interesting read.  And if you or your husband "miss a turn" it will give you something to do with your extra time!
 
So, give these things a taste test:

1.  Get involved with the political party that fits your convictions.  Begin to pray for the coming election and by all means--VOTE!

2.  Tension Tamer Tea by Celestial Seasonings

3.  Baylor University

4.  The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis
 

Fresh Grounded Thoughts
What God Has Been Teaching Me Lately 
Jennifer Rothschild
 
I laughed when I searched this topic on the Internet.  I found one essay which featured 72 ways to simplify your life, and another that touted 100 ways to do the same...and only a few of the ways showed up on both lists!  I even found a book with 500 inspiring examples of simple living.  Is it only me, or do those seem overly cumbersome and complex procedures to attain simplicity?  Really, is simplicity that complicated?
 
Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "A little simplification would be the first step toward rational living..."
 
Many of us are tangled in the web of mental, physical and emotional clutter, and it truly is irrational.  An unnecessarily complex and cluttered life keeps us from really living the abundant life that Jesus gives (John 10:10).  In other words, we're so full of "stuff" that there's no room for true abundance!  We've created our own life clutter by neglecting the discipline of simplicity.  We often don't choose complexity in our lives, but we unwittingly invite complexity by not thinking ahead and establishing a boundary that protects simplicity.  Is that you?
 
Think through the following questions to determine if you need some simplifying in your life:
 
1.  Do you add commitments or things to your life without subtracting commitments or things to make room? 
 
2.  If everything has a cost (time, energy, money)--can you afford it?
 
3.  Do the choices you make add complexity or simplicity to your life?
 
4.  Do you have a place in your home, calendar, or heart for what you are adding?  (Who or what will you have to neglect to add?)
 
5.  Do you feel like you have little control over your schedule, home, or life in general?
 
If you could use some simplicity, I'll be honest..it does take a little effort to institute at first.  Perhaps even establishing a boundary will seem a little complicated in the beginning; but believe me, the mental and spiritual effort required in establishing simplicity is easy compared to the complicated life that results without it. 
 
"Simplicity, simplicity, simplicity! I say let your affairs be as one, two, three, and to a hundred or a thousand...We are happy in proportion to the things we can do without." (Henry David Thoreau)
 
I am certain that life on Walden Pond taught Mr. Thoreau how very much is gained by simplicity, but you and I live in a reality far removed from that sleepy lake of a hundred years ago!  So, here's a few steps to simplicity that will help you find a boundary God has drawn in pleasant places (Psalm 16:6), and make room in your heart and in your life for real abundant living to occur.
 
Step 1:  Determine what is important to you.  Write down values you deem significant. For example: spending time with family, growing in your faith, giving to your community, learning, recreation, peacefulness, etc.
 
You can't do everything.  Cut out or do not accept opportunities or activities that aren't consistent with the core values you wrote down.  This is the first step, and it's philosophical in nature, but it's vital to truly maintaining your boundary. 
 
Step 2:  Decide goals you'd like to achieve that support your core values.  Focus on making your goals realistic and doable.  It's encouraging to do a few things really well, rather than to do a lot of things in a mediocre way.  You can't add hours to your day, but you can cut down on activities that aren't a part of achieving your set goal.
 
Step 3:  Have plans and policies.  Most of us say yes to many things because we feel uncomfortable saying no.  No is a really hard word to say, isn't it?  (By the way, "no" is one of the easiest words to type; you should try it over and over...no, no, no, no, no! See?)  It is easier to say no when you already have plans or policies that support your values and goals.  For example: "Our family already has a planned budget," or "Our policy is to only participate in one extra curricular activity a semester."  Having plans and policies allows them to be the "nay-sayers," while you smile and thank the one who gave the invitation. 
 
Step 4:  Apply the "one thing" principle.  How about one credit card, one phone (rather than a cell phone, home phone, fax, etc.), and one news source?  Consider magazine and newspaper subscriptions--could you get by with just one?  Do you really have time to read all that comes to your front door?   Examine your lifestyle.  Where can you apply the "one thing" principle?
 
Step 5:  De-clutter your physical surroundings.  A messy outer world can create or reflect a messy inner world.  So spiff up the outside where you can!  Fix what is broken or replace it.  If it doesn't fit, sell it or give it away.  If you haven't used it for the past year, bless someone else's life with it! If you grasp tightly to things and hate to get rid of your stuff, box them and write an "expiration date" on the box.  When the expiration date arrives, if you haven't used the contents, don't even open it...get rid of the unopened box.
 
Step 6:  Cut back on debt.  Consolidate your different debts into one and pay it off.  Put your credit card in a spot (like in a frozen block of ice in the bottom of your freezer) where you won't be able to use it until you're debt-free.  Track your expenses for a month, then cut back your spending on items you don't need.  For example, take your lunch rather than buying one at work.  Mix and match your clothes rather than constantly buying new ones.  This is painful, but brew your own coffee rather than stopping at Starbucks!  Debt creates mental clutter like nothing else.  How freeing to not have that weighing you down!  Simplify your finances; simplify your life.  Experience abundance as you live with less.  
  
The truth is that cluttered lives are tough to control!  Simplicity is easier to manage.  So, draw that boundary in a pleasant place.  Do what it takes...consider, create, clean, consolidate, calculate, contemplate, cut back, and celebrate the simplicity that you will inherit! 
 
"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. " - Leonardo Da Vinci
 
Well, that's what's been percolating in me lately!
 
 
Spill the Beans
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You Ask It, I'll Answer It
 
 
Question: When do you think the Lord is coming back?  I have been asking people that question and they all give me different answers.
 
- Michaela J.
 
Answer:  Well, you get different answers because there is no answer!  The best answer I can give is "I don't know."  My answer isn't noncommittal or ignorant though; I think it is quite scriptural.  Scripture emphasizes that no one knows when Christ will return.  Jesus made many statements like "...Be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect..." (Matthew 24:44)
 
The Bible clearly tells us that we can't be certain when He will come.  Jesus Himself compares the surprise of His coming to that of a thief in the night (Revelation 16:15).
 
Though scripture indicates signs of His coming and prophecies which must be fulfilled before He comes (Matthew 24:14, 25-27, 29-31), Jesus makes it clear that we really don't know exactly when that will be.  Jesus does remind us though, that His coming is eminent and could be very, very soon.  In Revelation 22:7, He said, "Behold, I am coming quickly..."
 
I am no theologian...just a student of the Bible, and I can't find in Scripture a definitive time when Christ will return. But, I find lots of promises that He will!  Woo hoo! Read 1 Thessalonians 4:16, 17 to get excited with me!
 
So, I believe we should live each day with the expectation that this could be the day, but equally live as a wise steward as if His coming could be years from now. 

 
And now the beans are officially spilled!
 
 
Prayer Requests

 
I need your prayers - if you have time, will you please consider praying for me? Here is my prayer list for this month:
 

 
1.  I am in crazy crunch time for the Bible Study filming.  Please, please pray for uninterrupted time to focus on writing the last two chapters and crafting the seven messages I will present on September 18-20.
 
2.  Please pray for the LifeWay production crew working with me on this project.  May God protect and guide through this whole process.
 
3.  Please pray for Lisa Whelchel and Kathy Troccoli as they will join me on the first night of filming to participate in some insightful conversation on stage.  Pray for their travel and peace and that God would ignite our words. 
 
4.  Becky Williams, who has helped me with Java for the past year, is leaving to be a missionary with Avant Ministries in Spain.  Please pray for her financial support to come in and for God to use her.  We will sure miss her around here!
 
5.  Valerie Lawrence and Susan Gear joined our staff and we are so grateful. Please pray for their huge learning curve! (We tend to pile on the work!)  And pray for a smooth transition for all of us. 
 
What would I do without you?  Thanks for your faithful friendship and prayers.
 
 
And the Grande Goes To
The Winners of the Month

Logged On and Tuned OutThis month, we have three winners! And the grande goes to:
Janet L. of Statesville, NC (ournannyboo@...)
Cathy W. of Valley Center, KS (thewhitehouse7656@...)
Sandra of Glen Allen, VA
(graceandpeace2you@...)!

Janet, Cathy and Sandra have won a copy of Logged On and Tuned Out by Vicki Courtney.

Congratulations, Janet, Cathy and Sandra! Please email us your mailing address.
 

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Thanks-a-Latte 

 
A Special Offer for Special Friends

 
He Touched Me CD Free CD for First 25 Purchasers!
 
During the month of September, the first 25 people to purchase anything on Jennifer's Store will receive a Free He Touched Me CD Single with Bonus Track

Jennifer's song, He Touched Me, was arranged by Travis Cottrell and featured on the Fingerprints of God Bible study videos. This CD also includes a teaching segment from the Fingerprints of God Bible study. (This CD will not show up in your shopping cart, but we will include it in your package).
 


 

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Small Things, Big Impact
 
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I hope you'll consider being one of my faith-walkin' Sole Sisters. I covet your prayers and appreciate so much the things you do to spread the word about my message.

Here are just a few of the small things you can do to make a big impact:

  • Join Sole Sisters (10 points)
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  • Write a Review at Amazon or LifeWay for Jennifer's new book: Self Talk, Soul Talk (10 points)
  • Email us a Photo with You and a Friend (20 points)
  • And more!
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