Posted on Thursday, April 18, 2019 Can I Fire Up the Togetherness in My Relationships? [Episode 33 With Ashleigh Slater] Do you know that frustration you feel when you just can’t get on the same page with your husband or your roommate or your boss or your BFF? I sure do! Early in our marriage, Phil and I struggled with togetherness because of laundry. Yes—laundry!