What Your Response Should Be to Hardship

Don’t you just sometimes get tired of dealing with hard stuff?!

You know … strained relationships, difficult bosses, constant conflict, illness, financial stress … hard stuff!

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Our hands can droop and our knees can wobble. We can look over our shoulder and think about turning back.

If that’s you, my friend, don’t turn back! Try to see your hard stuff as discipline.

Now, don’t worry. I didn’t say punishment.

Discipline … something to train you and make you stronger.

Hardships have the potential to bring better days, depending on our response to them.
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Yet I realize that “no discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.” (Hebrews 12:11)

The hard stuff has big potential to bring better days depending on our response to it.

So, I want to give you four different responses we can have to hard stuff. (But, I suggest you choose the last two!)

1. The Forlorn Fatalist

This woman blames her hard stuff on the law of averages.

“Everybody has trouble. Stuff happens. It’s just my lot in life.”

Half a century ago, Doris Day hit the charts singing, “Que sera, sera, Whatever will be, will be.” Today, we’d just roll our eyes and say, “Whatever.”

Do not make light of the Lord’s discipline. God is using this hardship to work in you.
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Instead of learning from the hard stuff, this fatalist female passes it off with a shrug.

The writer of Hebrews, however, warns us not to do that!

“Do not make light of the Lord’s discipline” (Hebrews 12:5).

In other words, sister, don’t lightly regard what He is doing in your life through the hard stuff. Ask God to enlighten your eyes so you can read between the lines! Instead of being forlorn, you will be fortified by His presence.

2. The Frail Fainter

When life gets hard, this woman collapses and quits! She picks up her marbles—or gathers her scrapbooking gear—and goes home.

If you listen closely, you can hear the frail fainter whine: “Why did this happen to me? WHY? I can’t take it anymore! It’s just not worth living the Christian life if this is how it is.”

You get the picture. She simply fades and, eventually, faints. But sister, “…Do not lose heart when he rebukes you” (Hebrews 12:5).

God will sustain and strengthen you no matter what you are facing.
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We don’t need to whine or wither when the hard stuff comes. No, let me remind you of who you are.

“But we do not belong to those who shrink back and are destroyed, but to those who have faith and are saved” (Hebrews 10:39).

Instead of fainting … have faith.

Set your hope on the fact that God will sustain you and strengthen you … no matter what you are facing, no matter what life delivers to your front door.

If this is encouraging your heart, I hope this post on when God doesn’t change your circumstances encourages you too.

3. The Faithful Follower

This is the woman who endures!

“Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children” (Hebrews 12:7).

Sometimes we see the word “endure” and it conjures up pictures of a Christian couch potato—nursing her wounds and barely hanging on. But, that’s not what it means at all.

To endure means to actively persevere. Persevere through your hardship to receive your reward.
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This isn’t passive! The term “endure” in its original language actually means “to actively persevere.”

Oh, girl, let’s be this woman!

Don’t throw in the towel.

Keep your shoes on and walk with perseverance.

Remain faithful, for there is a reward beyond imagination waiting for you if you do.

“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love Him” (James 1:12).

Girl, there is a “crown of life” just your size waiting for you in Heaven. You will look beautiful in it. So hang on, sister!

4. The Fruitful Finisher

This is the woman who hasn’t fainted or freaked out!

This is the sister who wasn’t forlorn … she was faithful and finished well.

We want to be her too! She would assure us, “it [hard stuff] produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it” (Hebrews 12:11).

Stay close to God, faithfully following Him, no matter how bumpy the road gets.
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If we remain faithful, we will become fruitful.

Our fruitfulness depends on how we respond to all the hard stuff though.

Oh, girl, it may taste bitter right now, but sweetness is coming!

So, stay close to God, faithfully following, no matter how bumpy the road. There can be good stuff in the hard stuff if you let it train and discipline you. You aren’t alone. God is with you every step of the way and we’re all with you … striving to be faithful followers and fruitful finishers!

What about you? How have you seen God bring good, even in the hardships you’ve experienced?

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